Experiencing loneliness in parenthood: a scoping review

R Nowland, G Thomson, L McNally, T Smith, K Whittaker, R Nowland, G Thomson, L McNally, T Smith, K Whittaker

Abstract

Aims: Chronic loneliness is experienced by around a third of parents, but there is no comprehensive review into how, why and which parents experience loneliness. This scoping review aimed to provide insight into what is already known about parental loneliness and give directions for further applied and methodological research.

Methods: Searches for peer-reviewed articles were undertaken in six databases: PsycINFO, Medline, CINAHL, Embase, Web of Science and Scopus, during May 2019 to February 2020. We searched for English studies which examined loneliness experienced during parenthood, including studies that involved parents with children under 16 years and living at home and excluding studies on pregnancy, childbirth or postbirth hospital care.

Results: From 2566 studies retrieved, 133 were included for analysis. Most studies (n = 80) examined the experience of loneliness in specific groups of parents, for example, teenage parents, parents of a disabled child. Other studies examined theoretical issues (n = 6) or health and wellbeing impacts on parents (n = 16) and their offspring (n = 17). There were 14 intervention studies with parents that measured loneliness as an outcome. Insights indicate that parental loneliness may be different to loneliness experienced in other cohorts. There is evidence that parental loneliness has direct and intergenerational impacts on parent and child mental health. Some parents (e.g. with children with chronic illness or disability, immigrant or ethnic minority parents) also appear to be at increased risk of loneliness although evidence is not conclusive.

Conclusion: This work has identified key gaps with further international, comparative and conceptual research needed.

Keywords: father; loneliness; mother; parental; parenthood; perceived social isolation.

Conflict of interest statement

Conflict of Interest: The author(s) declared no potential conflicts of interest with respect to the research, authorship and/or publication of this article.

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PRISMA flow diagram
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Category mapping of studies on parental loneliness Other category includes sub-categories where there are two or less studies, which includes housing (n = 2), partner violence/abuse (n = 2), military wives (n = 1), specific work patterns (n = 2), parents with substance abuse (n = 2) and gender variant parents (n = 2).

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